Great Sex Secrets

Archive for the ‘Kinky’ Category

Numerical Sex Positions

Image by imjustcreative via Flickr

Challenge time!

See how many different sexual positions you can achieve with your partner in 5 minutes. This is to test your creativity.

18 January 2007: Bondage Bear

Image by Ulleskelf via Flickr

Considering experimenting with bondage? You can use scarves, ties, ropes or even body tape! Yes, we have one and it is safe for airplane travel!

Either way,a basic safety precaution is to keep a scissors handy for a quick escape. Be prepared! Fire, earthquake or your inlaws could show up!!!

Special note : There is never a need to tie a body part so snugly that it loses feeling. Be sure to monitor your partners sensation and play safe.

Start off right. To get clean, it’s fine to jump in and out of the shower. But sometimes, you want to make bathing more of an event. So you add bubble bath to the tub, dim the lights, light candles, turn on some music, and soak luxuriously.

Sex is similar. It’s fine to jump right into bed. But sometimes, you want to transform plain old sex into a celebration. Fun and fantasy products turn ordinary sex into something extraordinary. These products include body glitter and paints, blindfolds, handcuffs, ticklers, and games.

Blindfolds and Restraints
First, let’s dispel one myth; the idea that games, or blindfolds and handcuffs are somehow silly, abusive or “kinky.” Wrong. In loving hands, these toys are wholesome, fun, and sensually erotic. They make sex more dramatic, more exciting and less predictable.

Games
Playfully erotic games are very similar to using blind folds above. How much do you trust your lover? Enough to answer—and ask—highly personal questions? Games ask you to do or say things that you might not do uninspired. Things that might open up a new world for you, sexually and emotionally.

Body Decorations
Men are visual, and get turned on by what they see; women are more sensual and get turned on by touch and caress. That is why products like Jewels or Body Finger Paints are so appealing. You or your partner can apply them for a visual and tactile treat that appeals to both your erotic turn-ons.

Ticklers
Ticklers are typically feathers, or mittens made of soft, furry fabric, or latex toys with dozens of soft, sensual “fingers” protruding from them. Every touch becomes erotically special, and ticklers can be sensational turn-ons.

Enjoy Your Fun and Fantasy!

 

Nipple shields, some with stainless steel barbells

Image via Wikipedia

Traveling with specialty piercings can be a challenge at times. Obviously, remove whatever metal you can and pack it.  I once travelled with a broken finger, and my lightweight metal spit didn’t even cause a concern!

Certain metals like gold, stainless steel or titanium in small amounts generally won’t set off the detectors.

However, many piercings will be noticed and will likely set off alarms. Calmly explain to the screener that you have a piercing here and here and here. Believe me, most of them don’t want to take the time or touch you if they dont have to.  Those individual searches aren’t that bad…but they do take time from your schedule and from the screener. The worst thing to do is get irritated and vocal. Try to keep calm. They are just doing their job…and you will have a great story to tell about your strip search at the airport!

The Disney Magic Cruise Ship

Image by Scott Ableman via Flickr

Lubes, lotions and potions should all be checked…unless you get pillow pack samplers or travel size.  Then they are small enough to meet current guidelines and can be carried on.

And never, never,  NEVER take handcuffs on a trip, especially on cruise ship! Nuff said on that one…I am sure you figured it out, but it is safe to say that it is intensely embarrassing…besides, it is a cruise!!! Get out and enjoy yourself!!!

Hope that gets you off on your next trip safely!


Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 23 other followers

►TAKE OUR CURRENT POLL◄

Darlene The Party Lady Is a Passion Parties Independent Consultant, Romance Ehnancement Specialist, Author, Trainer and Sex-EduTainer!

My First Book - Rx For Great Sex

Click the picture to preview or purchase Rx For Great Sex

My Second Book is now Available! Click the picture for details.

Rx For Great Success - Prosperity Prescriptions for Life and Business

The Gratitude Book Project

I am contrbuting author to this amazing work, and so proud!

The Party Lady Tweets…

Darlene The Party Lady does Passion Parties too!

Book a party today for more fun and romance secrets

Book a party today for more fun and romance secrets

Add some Passion to Your Life – Me with Dr Drew

Archives