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Do you interpretation of  your favorite movie scene

or chapter from a hot, steamy book.

Read Fifty Shades of Gray by E L Jamesanyone?

There are some super sexy ideas there!

Fifty Shades of Grey at SeaTac newsstand

If you ever find your self feeling a little down, in a rut, if the sizzle has fizzled or the grind is getting to you, all you have to do is pull out your personalized romantic memoirs and let them take you away, back to the best sexual and sensual experiences of your life. This would make a super exciting gift for your partner on so many levels! I bet just giving the gift of a record of your hottest sex encounters will lead to a whole other chapter in and of itself!

So lets get started.

Here are some mind joggers to help you create your blazing hot romantamemory book. Portions of this list have been taken from the Art of Seduction by Hugh DeBeer

PLACES – describe in detail, use pictures, souvenirs, scents or anything to help you bring back the memories of your best session…

In bed

In the car

In the kitchen


In the most unusual place

In the riskiest place


Special Times

First time together



Best costumes


Techniques Positions and Physical Prowess

Best Dominant

Best submissive

Best kiss

Most athletic

Most consecutive orgasms

Most memorable sexual awakening

Wildest sex ever

Most interesting position

Most bizarre

Most loving

The highest energy


Toys and Accessories

Best sex toy

Favorite lotion

Favorite lube

Favorite Video

Favorite erotic story or book

Wish List



Toys and accessories




Personal Best

Rate them all and then pick  your favorites.

As you can see this will be a work in progress. You should continue to add to your Best Sex Book, and refer to it often too!

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Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women’s Sexual Fantasies (Photo credit: Wikipedia)


Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle (Photo credit:

I bet that there are some of you with compromising pictures of yourself hidden in your drawers, or under your mattress. Or for the especially careful people out there, maybe even in a lock box.

Your bounty might not be limited to pictures either. Maybe you saved a flower from that first bouquet, or a special outfit, or even that first pair of panties from you special someone.

Today I am going to give you some ideas how to create a gallery of all your great sex memories. This will showcase all the very best intimate moments you have shared with your partner. What we want to focus on is a collection of memory joggers.

You know how it is, when someone tells a story. And it reminds you of a time in your past. I am going to give you some ideas to trigger your special super hot memories. Then you can record them in your own personal Best Sex Book.

Tricks And Treats

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Challenge Time!

Take 5 minutes to write down all the thing your partner does that you love! Only the good things. Pick the best tricks, techniques and touches you can think of. Then compare notes…

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Here is where you can find up to the minute coverage … the Washington Post summarized it all…

Nettwork EST Anchor(s) Online/mobile extras
ABC 4 a.m. – 10 a.m. Diane Sawyer and Barbara Walters at Buckingham Palace with Robin Roberts at Westminster Abbey Coverage live-streamed on, ABC News’ iPad and iPhone apps, as well as Facebook, Yahoo!, and Hulu
NBC 4 a.m. – 10 a.m. The whole “Today” show crew, plus Brian Williams. NBC Royal Wedding app for iPad
CBS 5 a.m. – 9 a.m. Katie Couric, assisted by “Early Show” anchor Erica Hill will simulcast live coverage
MSNBC 3 a.m. – 11 a.m. Martin Bashir and Chris Jansing will kick things off, and then the “Morning Joe” cast will take over Live streaming on
E! 4 a.m. – 9 a.m. Giuliana Rancic Live streaming on
BBC America 3 a.m. – 8:30 a.m. Huw Edwards The network will air a commercial-free simulcast of the BBC’s coverage
CNN Starting at 4 a.m. Piers Morgan, Richard Quest, Anderson Cooper and Kiran Chetry along with British fashion expert Cat Deeley Streaming from multiple camera angles on and through tablet apps
FOX News 4 a.m. – 8 a.m. Shepard Smith and Martha MacCallum from Buckingham Palace with Gretchen Carlson and Jonathan Hunt reporting from Westminster Abbey Live streaming on
Telemundo Starting at 6 a.m. Telemundo team
Reelz 5 a.m. – 9 a.m. Steve Patterson and Viviana Vigil with Adrian Dickson reporting from Westminster Abbey

Read it all here:

The Washington Post

Ok, I am as excited as anyone can be to see the Royal Wedding. But you just can’t make up some of this stuff! Here it is…the Royal Wedding Tea Bag set.

View more foods inspired by the Royal event here.


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Thank goodness someone wrote this all out!

Don’t miss a minute of Royal Wedding Media.

The Royal Wedding: A Viewing Guide

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