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Do you interpretation of  your favorite movie scene

or chapter from a hot, steamy book.

Read Fifty Shades of Gray by E L Jamesanyone?

There are some super sexy ideas there!

Fifty Shades of Grey at SeaTac newsstand

If you ever find your self feeling a little down, in a rut, if the sizzle has fizzled or the grind is getting to you, all you have to do is pull out your personalized romantic memoirs and let them take you away, back to the best sexual and sensual experiences of your life. This would make a super exciting gift for your partner on so many levels! I bet just giving the gift of a record of your hottest sex encounters will lead to a whole other chapter in and of itself!

So lets get started.

Here are some mind joggers to help you create your blazing hot romantamemory book. Portions of this list have been taken from the Art of Seduction by Hugh DeBeer

PLACES – describe in detail, use pictures, souvenirs, scents or anything to help you bring back the memories of your best session…

In bed

In the car

In the kitchen


In the most unusual place

In the riskiest place


Special Times

First time together



Best costumes


Techniques Positions and Physical Prowess

Best Dominant

Best submissive

Best kiss

Most athletic

Most consecutive orgasms

Most memorable sexual awakening

Wildest sex ever

Most interesting position

Most bizarre

Most loving

The highest energy


Toys and Accessories

Best sex toy

Favorite lotion

Favorite lube

Favorite Video

Favorite erotic story or book

Wish List



Toys and accessories




Personal Best

Rate them all and then pick  your favorites.

As you can see this will be a work in progress. You should continue to add to your Best Sex Book, and refer to it often too!

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Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women’s Sexual Fantasies (Photo credit: Wikipedia)


Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle (Photo credit:

I bet that there are some of you with compromising pictures of yourself hidden in your drawers, or under your mattress. Or for the especially careful people out there, maybe even in a lock box.

Your bounty might not be limited to pictures either. Maybe you saved a flower from that first bouquet, or a special outfit, or even that first pair of panties from you special someone.

Today I am going to give you some ideas how to create a gallery of all your great sex memories. This will showcase all the very best intimate moments you have shared with your partner. What we want to focus on is a collection of memory joggers.

You know how it is, when someone tells a story. And it reminds you of a time in your past. I am going to give you some ideas to trigger your special super hot memories. Then you can record them in your own personal Best Sex Book.

Try this – Put on something that you feel sexy in, and guess what? You’ll project more sex appeal. For many women this doesn’t necessarily mean some of the traditional “sexy” lingerie we see in Frederick’s of Hollywood. But something that you feel sensuous and confident in, perhaps something that skims your tummy or thighs so you are less self-conscious. Or something that accents your assets and hides your….well you know what I mean, Focus on what you like about yourself like your waist instead of what you perceive to be your liabilities. Wear  something lacy, something soft or slick or pick a color that just makes you feel on top of the world!

There is a piece of lingerie for EVERY woman that makes her look and feel like the sexiest woman in the world. Now, that’s the idea behind lingerie.

Of course the sexier you feel, the more likely you will want to do something about that feeling.  Lingerie can help extend foreplay. Consider this, ladies, put on some favorite lingerie and performing a striptease for your partner. When a woman says, “I’m going to strip for you,” a man understands what’s about to happen. He will be happy to sit and enjoys the show—for as long as it lasts. If he’s anxious, ladies just say, “Don’t get up out of your chair, or the show’s over.” Most men are quite happy to sit quietly and be entertained by a lover who strips for them.

Lingerie is actually a term for undies for both sexs! It derives from the French word ‘lin’ for linen. The concept of lingerie being visually appealing sexual enhancement is relatively recent times…

Undergarments were initially intended to alter shape, improve hygiene and provide a modicum of modesty. Corsets, girdles, bras, slips an other contraptions were often very large and bulky.

As the 20th century progressed underwear became smaller and more form fitting. Then welcome the  1960s, when life went wild, and lingerie began to be glamorized ushering in a whole new selection of styles, fabrics, fun and fantasy for all of us! The rest is, well, history!

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From Babydolls and chemises to corsets and costumes, some people – especially women –  don’t fully understand the benefits of lingerie. They think that skimpy, sexy outfits that display a woman’s charms are only sexual enhancement for men. If that’s how you enjoy using lingerie, fine. It definitely works!

What man doesn’t love looking at a woman in lingerie? Not only do men love seeing women in lingerie, something amazing usually happens when a woman puts on the right lingerie. She not only looks sexy, but she feels sexy, she becomes sexy. Lingerie can boost confidence and help shed inhibitions. The right lingerie can turn nearly any woman into a smoldering sex kitten.

Mouth Assessment

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Quite simply, French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongue. There really is no right or wrong way to kiss.

The point to keep in mind is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing.

Try kissing your partner a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing.

Here are a few tips to help you create the perfect French kiss.

Relax Yourself
You lips should be relaxed, you body should also be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish!

Open Lips
Open your lips (not to wide) but just like you do when regularly breathing through your mouth.

Do not have your faces directly opposite each other or your noses will clash. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of your partners.
Your mouths will then meet at the corner of your partner’s mouth and you won’t clash noses!

Open your mouth and put your tongue out around an inch or two. Your tongue will then go into your partner’s mouth and theirs will of course go into yours.
Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (and all people like to kiss differently) then just do the same as they do, if you are enjoying the sensation.

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