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Males under the age of forty are typically able to achieve an erection in less than ten seconds. 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes pf penetration.  The initial spurt of ejaculate travels at 28 miles per hour. By way of comparison, the world record for the 100 yard dash is 27.1 miles per hour.

Studies have shown that men become sexually aroused nearly every time they dream.

The two leading causes of temporary impotence are prolonged cigarette smoking and tight pants.

An unobstructed penis is capable of shooting semen anywhere from 12 to 24 inches.

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For some men, stimulation to the perineum will add to an overall pleasure picture. For others it will greatly increase sensations and/or improve orgasm.

I recently read about someone who referred to the perineum as her partners fast forward button. It increased his arousal level incredibly!!!

Arousing the perineum during oral sex is very easy. Using a small bullet style vibrator or our new Velvet Pleasure, which is shaped like a dental mirror, but vibrates and has a super soft and smooth feel with adjustable vibrations is a great way to hit the pleasure train.

During intercourse it can be a little more challenging, but not impossible. A female should be able to reach and massage or fondle the male perineum in a variety of different positions.

A couple other tips:

·       lube is a great accessory with any stimulation

·       be sure your nails are trimmed

·       since the anus is close by, be sure to be prepared for safe stimulation by using some type of barrier method… condom a finger, cut one in half to use like a dental dam for oral stimulation, or even saran wrap!

Softskin toys are made of porous material that cannot be disinfected. They may contain rubber softeners such as phthalates, and may also contain latex.

Toys made of these products are often more realistic looking and feeling. Cyberskin has flesh-like texture and density. Using a condom adds to the feeling of having the real deal, and makes cleanup easier.

Some people like to powder softskin toys with corn starch after use to keep the toy from getting sticky. Passion Powders work nicely too and add a lovely scent. But always wash all powders from the toy before use. Do not use talc, as talc has been linked to cervical cancer in women and should never be present in any form of vulva/vaginal play.

Lube: Use only water-based lubes That means oil-based lubricants, massage oils, butter, olive oil…anything containing oil is out.

Cleaning:  If you use powder on the toy be sure to Wash before and after use thoroughly with toy cleaner to prevent contamination and maintain PH balance. rinse with warm water and air or pat dry. Failure to remove cornstarch or powder can lead to irritation and infections.

Storage:  When dry, store in individual plastic bags for best results. Remove batteries before storage.

Jelly rubber toys are made of soft, porous material that cannot be disinfected. Jelly rubber is usually a translucent, soft, and flexible substance that might looks like it contains air bubbles.

Latex or latex like materials are sometimes an ingredient. Some people are allergic or sensitive to latex. Even thought the amount used in the material manufacturing process are small and don’t have disclosed on the labels, for super sensitive people it may be enough for them to react.

 

Some jelly rubber toys may also contain rubber softeners such as phthalates. Phthalates have had some press in the past few years for potential negative health effects. So far I have not found any solid data either way…so I suggest you read up on the latest news and research on phthalates and decide for yourself. You can always condom a toy to act as a barrier between you and the toy, and to assist in clean up.

Passion Parties toys are Phthalate Free!

Cleaning:  Clean them with toy cleaner and warm water, and store in a cool, dry place away from other objects. If your toy is not waterproof, please take care not to get water in its battery pack or cord.

Lube: Use Water based lubes are recommended.

Cleaning:.  For more delicate blends, or if you are not sure what the toy material is… stick to warm water and toy cleaner. Wash before and after use with toy cleaner to prevent contamination and maintain PH balance. rinse with warm water and air or pat dry.

Storage:  When dry, store in individual plastic bags for best results. Remove batteries before storage.

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Silicone sex toys are slightly porous non-porous, depending on the type of silicone. Pure 100% Silicone or Medical Silicone warms up quickly, retains body heat, is non-porous, which minimizes infection potential, and is firm to the touch. Silicone is considered less-allergenic, has no smell or taste, and can create visually appealing toys with bright colors. Additionally silicone is phthalate free.

Pthalates are chemicals that are used to soften plastic or vinyl to make them flexible. They are used in many every day applications, from sex toys to fingernail polish to perfumes to medical instruments. They have been getting some press recently questioning their safety. I will let you do your own research on this topic, but I will also point out to your which materials are phthalate free. That way you can decide for yourself.

Silicone also had a bad reputation for many years, but most of those claims have not been proven scientifically. Vibration does transfer very well through silicone and silicone blends. But when you get better materials, it generally comes at a higher cost. Many people find the higher price worthwhile because of the longer life-span of silicone, the increased comfort of use, and when using pure silicone, it is easier to clean.

Lube: Passion Parties recommends only water-based lubes with silicone blend toys. However, some people have reported using silicone lubricants with little or no adverse effects with 100% silicone.  Caution: It may ruin the surface of your toy, so I say why take the chance?

Examples of commercially available silicone-based lubricants that you may already have are: Eros, System Jo, iLube, Wet Platinum, ID Millennium, and Passion Parties Slip n Slide.

Cleaning:.  Wash before and after use with toy cleaner to prevent contamination and maintain PH balance. rinse with warm water and air or pat dry.

Other options: For 100% silicone immersible toys,  you can boil it on the stove (3-5 minutes)  After immersing, air dry the battery area. If the battery pack is not waterproof, use the spritz and rinse method.

Storage:  When dry, store in individual plastic bags for best results. Remove batteries before storage.

Latex is very porous and does not contain phthalates.

However, keep in mind that there are many people who are sensitive to Latex. So it is important to be aware of which materials could contain latex. Passion Parties does not carry any toys made from latex, but you can find some out there.

Condoms are usually made with latex. They are very durable and can fit over massager heads, dildoes, items shared between multiple partners and any item used anally. Latex dams can also be used to cover surfaces while still transmitting temperature and sensations.

If you are sensitive to latex, polyurethane condoms are also available.

Lube: Use only water-based lubes with rubber or latex, as oil/petroleum -based substances will break it down and destroy latex! That means oil-based lubricants, massage oils, butter, olive oil…anything containing oil. Silicone Lubricants with caution.

Cleaning:.  Wash before and after use with toy cleaner, rinse with warm water and air or pat dry. Because latex is so porous, it is more difficult to clean. Use with condoms for easier clean up. If your toy is waterproof, check to make sure there’s a tight seal around the battery compartment before immersing. After immersing, air dry the battery area. If your toy is not waterproof, use the spritz and rinse method.

Storage:  When dry, store in individual plastic bags for best results. Remove batteries before storage.

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Rubber is Porous and does not contain Phthalates. It is  Firm, flexible, and often heavy. Rubber dildos are porous and often need more care to clean than the average toy to clean and maintain.

Most rubber is produced using petroleum.  However, some (about 1/4th of the rubber produced) is made from latex extracted from trees. Each or the two source produces a different type of rubber with different properties.

Polymers, which are large molecules made from petroleum, make up synthetic rubbers.  Natural rubbers are made from elastic latexes.

During World War II, natural rubber supplies were largely cut off to the United States.  It was then the need for the commodity encouraged serious experimentation into producing synthetic rubber.  While synthetics still predominate, the natural rubber is still desirable for many applications because it has a greater resilience. Plus, it makes great radial tires.

Lube: Use only water-based lubes with rubber or latex, as oil/petroleum -based substances will break it down. That means all oil-based lubricants, massage oils, butter, olive oil, Vaseline  or anything containing oil. Use of silicone based lubricants is possible, as long as you are certain the toy does not contain silicone.

Cleaning:.  Wash before and after use with toy cleaner, rinse with warm water and air or pat dry. Used with condoms for easier clean up. If your toy is waterproof, check to make sure there’s a tight seal around the battery compartment before immersing. After immersing, air dry the battery area. If your toy is not waterproof, use the spritz and rinse method.

Storage:  When dry, store in individual plastic bags for best results. Remove batteries before storage.


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