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Do you interpretation of  your favorite movie scene

or chapter from a hot, steamy book.

Read Fifty Shades of Gray by E L Jamesanyone?

There are some super sexy ideas there!

Fifty Shades of Grey at SeaTac newsstand

If you ever find your self feeling a little down, in a rut, if the sizzle has fizzled or the grind is getting to you, all you have to do is pull out your personalized romantic memoirs and let them take you away, back to the best sexual and sensual experiences of your life. This would make a super exciting gift for your partner on so many levels! I bet just giving the gift of a record of your hottest sex encounters will lead to a whole other chapter in and of itself!

So lets get started.

Here are some mind joggers to help you create your blazing hot romantamemory book. Portions of this list have been taken from the Art of Seduction by Hugh DeBeer

PLACES – describe in detail, use pictures, souvenirs, scents or anything to help you bring back the memories of your best session…

In bed

In the car

In the kitchen

Outside

In the most unusual place

In the riskiest place

 

Special Times

First time together

Anniversary

Birthday

Best costumes

 

Techniques Positions and Physical Prowess

Best Dominant

Best submissive

Best kiss

Most athletic

Most consecutive orgasms

Most memorable sexual awakening

Wildest sex ever

Most interesting position

Most bizarre

Most loving

The highest energy

 

Toys and Accessories

Best sex toy

Favorite lotion

Favorite lube

Favorite Video

Favorite erotic story or book

Wish List

Positions

Locations

Toys and accessories

Fantasy

Other

 

Personal Best

Rate them all and then pick  your favorites.

As you can see this will be a work in progress. You should continue to add to your Best Sex Book, and refer to it often too!

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Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women’s Sexual Fantasies (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle (Photo credit: rachelkramerbussel.com)

I bet that there are some of you with compromising pictures of yourself hidden in your drawers, or under your mattress. Or for the especially careful people out there, maybe even in a lock box.

Your bounty might not be limited to pictures either. Maybe you saved a flower from that first bouquet, or a special outfit, or even that first pair of panties from you special someone.

Today I am going to give you some ideas how to create a gallery of all your great sex memories. This will showcase all the very best intimate moments you have shared with your partner. What we want to focus on is a collection of memory joggers.

You know how it is, when someone tells a story. And it reminds you of a time in your past. I am going to give you some ideas to trigger your special super hot memories. Then you can record them in your own personal Best Sex Book.

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• Prior to each use, turn the toy on and hold under running water for at least 30 seconds to a minute. This checks the toy for battery pack defects — better to find out in the bathroom sink than in the bath or shower.

• Always clean your toys after each use with Toy Cleanser.

•For non-battery operated toys, you can create a bath for your toys using Toy Cleanser Concentrate.

• Store batteries separate from the toy — both will last much longer this way.

• Make sure toys are fully dry before storing. Air dry or use a lint free cloth for best results.

Some toys fare better than others in the hot tub or swimming pool due to the chemicals used to keep the water clean and bacteria free. The

best type of toys for the pool or hot tub are those made from hard plastic or glass. Soft toys may not last long in chlorine-treated water. So I recommend keeping these softer feeling toys for the bathtub or shower.

The sea’s natural saltiness may erode some toy materials if not properly maintained so it’s extra important to thoroughly clean and dry your toys after frolicking in the waves. Also, the ocean is constantly moving — hold on tight so your toy doesn’t get away from you! Imagine explaining that one to the coast guard – Why sorry sir, it just sort of got away from me!

English: Caribbean Motel on NRHP since August ...

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Muscles of the male perineum

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Hot tip for the guys -dont over look the labia! As women get aroused, the labia also fills with blood, along with all her other special parts. Then the lips become extra sensitive. Try licking the labia, gently sucking, or touching them while you manually stimulate the clitoris for extra sensation if she likes it.

On men, the perineum is that little piece of real estate located behind the testicles and before the anus that no one really knows what to do with. It has lots of different names, including

·       the taint – it taint butt and taint balls

·       The tween –it is tween the balls and the hole or

·       twixt the sack and the crack

·       The Chode is sometimes used, although chode can also be used for a very short thick penis, as well as a word for fornication itself.

·       gooch,

·       grundle

Sagittal section of the lower part of a female...

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Taint Tween Chode? What exactly is it? What do I do with it?

Ladies: Have you touched your partner in that special place lately? If you haven’t you just might be missing out on some super excitement! So what am I talking about? The Perineum of course.

We all have one.
It is rich in nerves and has great potential to be aroused during fore-play and intercourse.On the ladies it is behind the vaginal opening and before the anus.

Or as I heard it at one of my parties, if its between the ‘giney and the heinie or Ain’t her cooter, ain’t her pooter. And while it is a pleasure area for women, we would probably get better benefit from stimulation to other areas like: clitoris, g spot, vaginal opening or anal opening.


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