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I bet that there are some of you with compromising pictures of yourself hidden in your drawers, or under your mattress. Or for the especially careful people out there, maybe even in a lock box.

Your bounty might not be limited to pictures either. Maybe you saved a flower from that first bouquet, or a special outfit, or even that first pair of panties from you special someone.

Today I am going to give you some ideas how to create a gallery of all your great sex memories. This will showcase all the very best intimate moments you have shared with your partner. What we want to focus on is a collection of memory joggers.

You know how it is, when someone tells a story. And it reminds you of a time in your past. I am going to give you some ideas to trigger your special super hot memories. Then you can record them in your own personal Best Sex Book.

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Kissing might be one of the most romantic things you can do. There is nothing better then that first kiss when you feel the zsa zsa zsu!

But did you know:

It helps prevent tooth decay. Kissing is nature’s cleaning process for your mouth. It stimulates saliva flow, decreases plaque and helps fight tooth decay.

It is great exercise too…and will help keep your facial muscles in shape.

Kissing can help your whole body to relax. Your breathing deepens, your stress level drops and tension levels decrease.

On average you burn about 1 calorie for every minute you kiss. The longer the better here – if you get serious about it, you might even be able to count it as a workout.

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  • Practice your breathing techniques. The body often tenses up right before climax, constraining oxygen. When oxygen is reduced, blood flow weakens. As a result, the orgasm is shortened or never achieved. By performing regular breathing exercises, you can train yourself to breathe properly at all times. This will result in higher oxygen saturation; improved blood flow; and stronger, longer, more frequent orgasms. All good things!
  • Work your PC muscles. The pelvic floor muscles automatically convulse during orgasm. By flexing them during sex, you can prolong the pleasurable contractions and, in some cases, multiply the fun. Strengthen your PC muscles with a kegel exerciser suitable to your ability level. I have 3 available—Kegel Pods, Pleasure Pearls or Ben-Wa Balls. Email me if you need help deciding which would be right for you.
  • Studies have shown that a diet high in fruits, vegetables, nuts, whole grains, olive oil and fish, and low in red meat, can have a positive effect on sexual function, including one’s ability to orgasm.
  • Don’t be afraid to explore your body. How can you expect anyone else to please you if you can’t please yourself ? Take time out to get to know your body. Become acquainted with your own anatomy and what feels good. Try stimulating the various areas and see what you likey…
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A Sexam does not have to be a solo mission. If and when you are comfortable, this is also a great practice for you and your lover to try out as well. This is a great way for you can be sure he or she knows exactly what pleases you – no more excuses.

  • Make a rule to wait a couple of hours after the exam before you have sex. This allows you both to make the most of the exam’s educational benefits.
  • Follow the same suggestions as a solo exam, but take turns exploring.
  • Don’t touch one another at the same time. Each of you should focus solely on one another.
  • Communicate what feels good and what doesn’t.
  • Consider turning this into one of those fantasies, has anyone got a white coat and stethoscope?

Did you know the average American will eat 35,000 cookies in a lifetime. I figure you deserve to eat a cookie if you made it through your first sexam!

The average American woman spends 55 minutes per day getting showered, dressed, and groomed.  By now that sexam is sounding like a pretty good idea, right?

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British Journal of Clinical Practice reports – Of the people who die suddenly during sex, 80% are in the act of cheating on their spouses. Make you think twice anyone? 🙂

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Masturbation is only considered a problem if it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively and/or interferes with daily life and activities.

There can certainly be religious or cultural issues associated with masturbation…but we are not here to solve all the worlds problems today…just to get a little glimps of what the guys are up to this week!

As with women,  masturbation can actually improve a mans sexual satisfaction levels, and in turn, it can improve a relationship. By exploring your own body through masturbation, you can determine what is pleasing to you and can share this with your partner.

Sometimes partners use mutual masturbation to discover techniques for a more satisfying sexual relationship and to add to their mutual intimacy. More on that later! Now be sure to get excited waiting for it!!!

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