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Challenge time!

Want to have some real fun? For the next 6 weeks, your goal is to make love a different way every time! Change rooms, change positions, add something new, play a game…and keep a little log of all the new exciting things you do.

 

玉珠峰的星空 / starry night of Yuzhu

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Experience your lover in a new way no matter where you are. It can be as easy as turning your bedroom into a sexy boudoir with a fun or foreign theme, camping out (just the two of you) in your backyard under the stars, or as easy as checking into a hotel for the night.

 

A sensual enhancement, such as a toy or flavored lotions, is another option to help you spice up your love life and capture vacation sex all year long. It’s also the perfect time to explore your curiosities with more adventurous sex toys.

 

Having an open mind and good communication is key in any aspect of a relationship. If you have both of these elements already, you are limited only by your imagination.

 

Sexual enhancements are not limited to only physical pleasure. They can be used to explore intimacy, develop trust, learn about each others’ bodies, your likes and dislikes. This is one of the reasons why Passion Parties carries a wide range of products from romance to adventure.

 

No matter who you are, no matter your level of experience, there’s something for everyone

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Now you’re ready to dance. Your striptease should have a theme. Be sure you have the right costume. You could wear a fun fantasy costume or nothing at all. Use scarves, feathers or wear sexy lingerie or the more risqué

Don’t forget to adorn your supple skin with special shimmer color.  Glitter Glo glow in the dark glitter. Draw some fun suggestions, hearts arrows or anything you like, works great under a black light!!!

For some real fun, cover yourself from head to toe in a glittering body lotion like Glitter Body Gel from Passion Parties. Then wrap a ribbon around yourself and tie it in a bow. Present the “present” to your lover and let him know his gift is ready to be unwrapped.

Another favorite trick is to spritz on Body Dew lotion, then dust with Gold dust. It gives the look of sparkly nylons without the costraints.

Whatever your do, make your performance personalized because it truly is a personal gift from you to your lover. When dancing, remove your clothes or accessories slowly and don’t let your partner touch you. Your goal is to tease and entice.

Maintain direct eye contact throughout your dance and keep your confidence high. Once you’ve performed your first striptease you and your lover will desire repeat performances. So release your inhibitions and get your body moving. An intimate striptease is a sexy way to say, “I love you.”

exercise makes you horny

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You know, Everything you do burns calories…here are some fun guesstimates based on an average. Everything from age, sex, muscle mass to genetics and more would need to be factored in for specifics.

  • · Sleeping or being a “dead lay”  burns about 60 calories per hour.
  • · Eating burns about 70-80 calories an hour…so if you eat long enough can you lose it all? Hmmm????
  • · Showering about 250 calories an hour…but who wants to spend an hour in the shower
  • Light house work burns about 100 calories per hour so does kissing and light petting
  • Light exercise, breaking a sweat 150- 250 calories per hour
  • Very active sports 400 to 600 an hour or more!!!
  • Average Sexual activity 100-300 calories per hour. But, you can experiment with some interesting positions and increase that. Try standing guys! Ladies, break a sweat.

So, decide what you like best and go for it. However, if you decide to opt for sexual activity, and enjoy fellatio on your guy, remember, you have to add back 15-30 calories if you swallow.

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A Sexam does not have to be a solo mission. If and when you are comfortable, this is also a great practice for you and your lover to try out as well. This is a great way for you can be sure he or she knows exactly what pleases you – no more excuses.

  • Make a rule to wait a couple of hours after the exam before you have sex. This allows you both to make the most of the exam’s educational benefits.
  • Follow the same suggestions as a solo exam, but take turns exploring.
  • Don’t touch one another at the same time. Each of you should focus solely on one another.
  • Communicate what feels good and what doesn’t.
  • Consider turning this into one of those fantasies, has anyone got a white coat and stethoscope?

Did you know the average American will eat 35,000 cookies in a lifetime. I figure you deserve to eat a cookie if you made it through your first sexam!

The average American woman spends 55 minutes per day getting showered, dressed, and groomed.  By now that sexam is sounding like a pretty good idea, right?

Sensuality

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7. Caress the Face

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9. Kiss the Lips

10. Nozzle, Neck & Throat

11. Gaze Into the Eyes

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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-power-rest/201008/can-sex-grow-my-brain

This is definitely an interesting article! Is your brain and body up to the challenge???

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