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Males under the age of forty are typically able to achieve an erection in less than ten seconds. 75% of men ejaculate within three minutes pf penetration.  The initial spurt of ejaculate travels at 28 miles per hour. By way of comparison, the world record for the 100 yard dash is 27.1 miles per hour.

Studies have shown that men become sexually aroused nearly every time they dream.

The two leading causes of temporary impotence are prolonged cigarette smoking and tight pants.

An unobstructed penis is capable of shooting semen anywhere from 12 to 24 inches.

Histological section of prostate gland.

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Remember, for guys the prostate gland, also known as the male g-spot, the p-spot or the a-spot, is located just a little bit north of the perineum…sort of between the perineum and the anal canal. I know, a bad visual, but I bet you got the picture.

So what do you want to do with this little landing spot? 
Since some men find testicle stimulation to be a little TOO much, 
stimulation of the perineum is a good alternative. As I always recommend, 
if you decide to experiment with any new bedroom fun, be sure the avenues of 
communication are open. And while you are in the neighborhood, consider trying some of 
these moves on the penis, scrotum or anus too!
  •    licking
  • gently sucking (and no teeth unless specifically requested, and then only super gently)
  • fondle especially during intercourse!
  •  massage
  • vibration

C-rings also known as Cock Rings or O-Rings have evolved into a popular, couples’ toy. Actually, it is one of our best sellers at Passion Parties.


C-rings can be made from many different types of material from leather, cloth, silicone and even metal and glass, the c-rings of today are no longer a “kinky sex toy” or for men with erectile dysfunction, but a new way to experience lovemaking with the one you desire in a new and different way.


The most popular types of c-rings for couples are made from hygienic silicone or another comfortable, stretchy material. Vibrating c-rings and c-rings with clitoral stimulators were specifically designed to be sexually exciting for both partners. The most important role of any couples toy is to bring partners closer together.

Super Sperm

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A man will ejaculate approximately 18 quarts of semen, containing half a trillion sperm, in his lifetime. Go guys!

A man masturbating

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As teenagers it is estimated that men masturbate at least once daily and eight times a week seems to be the most common average noted. Doing it more often or fewer than eight times a week is OK too. There are a lot of factors to take into account.

Favorite places to masturbate for males include the bed and bath. As for technique, generally, a male will form a loose fist around his erect penis and stroke in an up and down motion.

For most males, masturbation is healthy. Arousal is usually started by the thought of something sexually pleasing…so in short, whatever your fantasy is! Arousal is easy for most males and can happen from dozens to hundreds of times a day. Please note – Masturbation or orgasm is not required or recommended each and every time a guy gets aroused!

One more thing to add here…my usual mantra,” wetter sex is better sex” holds true for masturbation too. A little lube or oil can really make the experience much more pleasurable and intense.

I do want to caution you about some  masturbation techniques that should be avoided:

  1. Masturbating in a face-down position. Masturbation is best learned on your back. After you master that, sitting or standing are other options. If you masturbating face-down it puts too much pressure on your penis. This could cause Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome. Switching to masturbating while on your back should prevent TMS problems when you engage in partner sex in the future.
  2. Never insert anything into your urethra. This is the opening where urine and ejaculate exit. The urinary tract is a sterile system and insertion of any object can cause injury or infections.
  3. Once you begin go ejaculate, you should let if flow. Attempting to stop the flow can send semen into your bladder and could potentially cause damage to surrounding tissues and nerves of the penis.

Most guys clean up afterward with tissue, a shirt, a sock, or whatever is handy. Be sure to grab something clean! Others rub the semen onto their bodies. While the thought of finding the wet sock or shirt is not appealing to most of the ladies, the good news is that it is not likely to cause harm.

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Cool Jerk

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So why masturbate? In addition to feeling good, masturbation is a good way of relieving sexual tension that can build up over time. For people without partners or whose partners are not willing or available for sex is can be an excellent release. It is an alternative for people who wish to avoid pregnancy or STD’s. It also has medical applications! For instance when a man must give a semen sample for fertility testing or for sperm donation.

Nearly all males start masturbating or rubbing the penis to the point of orgasm between the ages of 12 and 14. Prior to that age, many start the act of massaging themselves, but are not able to ejaculate. As a former labor and deliver nurse, we used to see baby boys already noticing a fascination with their penis…and studies have shown that even in utero males have been known to practice the beginnings of self pleasure.

  • Statistically, about ½ of boys masturbate to orgasm by age 13.
  • Approximately ¾ masturbate to orgasm by age 14
  • by age 15 it is just about 100%.
  • Most men masturbate for the duration of their life
  • Nocturnal Emissions or wet dreams may or may not be related to sexual dreams. They are actually a result of the body’s need to release seminal fluids. It is normal to have them or not…if you do you are probably in your early to mid teens and you most likely have one about every 10 days until you start masturbating and orgasming regularly.
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One or two fingers may not sufficiently stimulate the G-spot to become fully aroused. Some women need to feel very “filled up” so  a G-spot toy can help!!!

The most common G-spot stimulator resembles a cylindrical vibrator but is slightly curved at the end of the shaft. This curved tip is angled to press up against a woman’s G-spot when inserted vaginally. Some G-spot dildos have handles to help you apply pressure against the G-spot.

Take your G-spot toy and apply lube to it. Let your mind travel to a comfortable and uninhibited state. Take a moment to engage in manual stimulation. After you reach a heightened state of sexual arousal, slowly insert the G-spot toy with the curved tip pointing upward. Experiment with different strokes and pressure against the vaginal wall, just as you would with any type of penetration, getting familiar with this erogenous zone. Now apply extra pressure on the G-spot with the tip of the toy fully inside, at the top and toward the belly. Remember, this unique pleasure spot requires firmer pressure and quick rubbing strokes, not in-and-out thrusting.

BIG NOTE:Don’t be alarmed if you feel the urge to urinate…It is perfectly normal!!! Be sure to empty your bladder before you start exploring, so you know you not be passing urine when you feel the urge.

However, also be aware that fluid can be released during g spot stimulation that is not urine. This is known as Female ejaculation. Since that is a whole topic on its own, lets save that one.

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