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It’s ok to kiss a fool.
It’s ok to let a fool kiss you.
But don’t let a kiss fool you.

2/13: Chocolate

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Sometimes the right line just might work. Your mission this week is to try these and let us know how you do!

May Work:

  • Here I am. Now what are your other two wishes?
  • If it’s true that we are what we eat, then I could be you by morning
  • Are you a Parking ticket because you got Fine written all over you!
  • I’m not really this tall, i’m just sitting on my wallet!
  • Hi, I’m writing a phone book, can I have your number?
  • Do you wash your clothes in Windex, because I can see myself in your pants.
  • I need someone really bad…Are you really bad?

Oh ya, definitely give these a try:

  • Give a rose to her and say: I wanted to show this rose how beautiful you are
  • Is there a rainbow here? Because you’re the treasure I’ve been searching for
  • Excuse me, do you mind if I stare at you for a minute? I want to remember your face for my dreams
  • What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl in this room?

At your own risk:

  • If you were a booger I’d pick you first
  • Are you free tonight, or will it cost me?
  • You be my Dairy Queen, I’ll be your Burger King, you treat me right and I’ll do it your way.
  • Is your last name Campbell?’Cuz you are mmm-mmm good!
  • Is your dad a baker? Cuz you’ve got some nice buns!
  • Oh! Sorry, I thought that was a Braille name tag.
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A wink, a smile, a second glance from her eyes, spurs just enough excitement to rouge your face with a light blush. This is the ancient art of flirting at its roots. Throughout time people have gone from exchanging written secret letters and romantic telegraphs to affectionate telephone calls and stimulating texts with their significant others, all the while entertaining the future promise of a sexual encounter.

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Of course any pain should probably be checked out by a doctor…so that is always my first recommendation.

But assuming everything is AOK  my first thought is to be sure there has been adequate foreplay so her body is ready for lovemaking. For some women, the cervix is more prominent in the vaginal canal…and when she becomes aroused, the pelvic area muscles tighten and actually lift the cervix out of the canal a bit. That is a good reason not to rush too quickly into intercourse itself.

Of course, Just about every can benefit from using a personal lubricant from time to time. So that is another option to consider.

And a final thought…some partners just don’t fit together well. If your package is bigger than she can handle…you can try some different positions where penetration is not as deep…or add a bumper guard. We have several customers use our Gigi this way. The trim it for the fit they want and that way he gets the feeling of deep penetration, but the bumper guard protects her from penetration too deeply. More on this coming… and you will too! 🙂

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Oil-based lubricants include: vegetable oils (olive, corn, etc.), butters, and nut oils (avocado, peanut, etc.). Oil-based lubricants can be used both on the genitals and as massage lotions.

They may be safely applied externally on a wonan to the vulva, clitoris, and penis, and can be tolerated by many (guestimate is around 50%-50% of women) for use inside the vagina. Some people like to use them and can tolerate them in and around the anus too.

Oil-based lubes are safe to ingest during oral sex but they are not recommended by condom manufacturers as they can weaken the condom. The feel more greasy than slippery and may stain bed linens and clothing, requiring  a good soap and water wash.

NOTE: Vegetable oils can go rancid and can provide a medium for bacterial and yeast growth.

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Kiss every part of her body

Sit and talk in just underwear

Hugs are the universal medicine

PDA = Public Display of Affection

Blindfolds are good

Spend every second possible together

Kiss every chance you get

Always hold her around her hips/sides

When in public, only flirt w/ each other

Take advantage of any time alone together

Spaghetti=(Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)

Don’t wear underwear and LET her find out

Hold her w/hands inside the back of her shirt

Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc

Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight

Take her to dinner and do the “dinner for two” deal

Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars

Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out and more

Put love notes in her pockets when she is not looking

Sleep together. Actually sleep with each other, not sex.

Tell her that she is the only girl you ever want.

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Physiologically, all orgasms are the same in that they involve contractions of the pelvic floor muscles. As you explore your own pleasure responses by yourself, you should come to know the different types of sensations you have with various types of stimulation, and maybe even learn what kinds of foreplay and sexual activity are likely to produce feelings that you would like to have that day.

If you take the time to explore your own body, regardless of your age or sexual experience, helps you discover your sensual likes and dislikes and achieve orgasm more easily. I am here to assure you that Masturbation is a common, safe, and normal practice which occurs in infants, teenagers, and adults all over the world.

Self-pleasure is a very healthy thing. Knowing where you like to be touched, and what effect that location has on you will help you to teach your partner where to focus attention. Self-pleasure isn’t about replacing your partner; it’s about developing your relationship so you both can enjoy sex to the fullest. It also teaches you to be more comfortable with your body.

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