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I bet that there are some of you with compromising pictures of yourself hidden in your drawers, or under your mattress. Or for the especially careful people out there, maybe even in a lock box.

Your bounty might not be limited to pictures either. Maybe you saved a flower from that first bouquet, or a special outfit, or even that first pair of panties from you special someone.

Today I am going to give you some ideas how to create a gallery of all your great sex memories. This will showcase all the very best intimate moments you have shared with your partner. What we want to focus on is a collection of memory joggers.

You know how it is, when someone tells a story. And it reminds you of a time in your past. I am going to give you some ideas to trigger your special super hot memories. Then you can record them in your own personal Best Sex Book.

Be gentle, use it lightly at first and allow your partner to get the feeling of the vibrations against sensitive areas like for a guy- behind his testicles or  gently along the shaft of his penis.  For the ladies, concentrate on the clitoris or the opening only of the vaginal canal. Remember, the majority of the nerve openings are in the first inch.

 Be flexible when introducing new toys. What you think might be a perfect toy may not work out for your partner. That’s perfectly ok; put that one aside, you can even save it for yourself, then try something different together.

Communicate and find out what your partner is curious about. Do a little research, and share your findings before you buy a new addition to your romantic life.  If you or your partner need some help in selecting something to help you put the old zsa zsa zsu back in your bedroom…or living room…or kitchen, well drop me a message.

I think A great introductory couples’ toy is a c-ring. Start out with a non-vibrating version, which maximizes your clitoral and labial stimulation. Communicate how the added sensations can enhance the experience.  Our Rocket Rings are top notch.

Another great beginner’s option is our Deluxe Love Smitten and a bullet vibrator. This gives you lots of options starting out with a wonderful stress busting massage…into a vibrating massage…into where ever you want your adventure to take you.

Eventually you may want to move into more powerful versions with attached bullets designed to stimulate both of you at the same time. My recommendation is The Progressor, my most popular multi function couples toy.   It is soft, stretchy with a removable bullet that has multiple speed and pattern settings for lots of fun, relaxing and stimulating play.  The Progressor (pictured above) is my #1 choice since is can be used alone, with vibration, you can separate the bullet and use it alone, and of course it can also be used as a G Spot Training wheel! (more on that later)

Start by talking about toys and your curiosity to try them with your partner. The reality of sex toys may be a bit overwhelming, so don’t pressure your partner.

 

Men sometimes think that a sex toy will replace them – ladies, you can respond by asking him if masturbation makes him desire you any less. The obvious answer is no, it doesn’t. Just listen to him and consider his feelings. He might not be willing now, but you’ve opened the door and if he’s even slightly curious, he’ll be thinking about it. Remember, greater communication usually equals greater sex.

Let your partner watch you with your toy and encourage them to use it with you.

Feel free to be the narrator and help your partner out by telling him what to do, where to put it, and how it feels. That can be so sexy all by itself. Eventually, try to use the toy together.

Taking a break from your normal routine and experiencing your lover in a new way can not only bring back the fire of when you first got together, it’s also a great time to spice up your love life with sensual enhancements.

Persuading your partner to try a sex toy is similar to coaxing them into anything new – sexual or not. Change can be unsettling, but sexual changes can be even more so because intimacy is so loaded with emotion.

Some men and women both may feel that if their partner wants to try a toy, it means their abilities or equipment are not satisfying. Reassure them that they is irreplaceable. Toys don’t kiss, cuddle or take out the garbage. But the can be good for enhancing what is already good and introducing some variety and spice to your sex life to ad even more pleasure. And there is nothing wrong with that!

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From Babydolls and chemises to corsets and costumes, some people – especially women –  don’t fully understand the benefits of lingerie. They think that skimpy, sexy outfits that display a woman’s charms are only sexual enhancement for men. If that’s how you enjoy using lingerie, fine. It definitely works!

What man doesn’t love looking at a woman in lingerie? Not only do men love seeing women in lingerie, something amazing usually happens when a woman puts on the right lingerie. She not only looks sexy, but she feels sexy, she becomes sexy. Lingerie can boost confidence and help shed inhibitions. The right lingerie can turn nearly any woman into a smoldering sex kitten.

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