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For some men, stimulation to the perineum will add to an overall pleasure picture. For others it will greatly increase sensations and/or improve orgasm.

I recently read about someone who referred to the perineum as her partners fast forward button. It increased his arousal level incredibly!!!

Arousing the perineum during oral sex is very easy. Using a small bullet style vibrator or our new Velvet Pleasure, which is shaped like a dental mirror, but vibrates and has a super soft and smooth feel with adjustable vibrations is a great way to hit the pleasure train.

During intercourse it can be a little more challenging, but not impossible. A female should be able to reach and massage or fondle the male perineum in a variety of different positions.

A couple other tips:

·       lube is a great accessory with any stimulation

·       be sure your nails are trimmed

·       since the anus is close by, be sure to be prepared for safe stimulation by using some type of barrier method… condom a finger, cut one in half to use like a dental dam for oral stimulation, or even saran wrap!

Muscles of the male perineum

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Hot tip for the guys -dont over look the labia! As women get aroused, the labia also fills with blood, along with all her other special parts. Then the lips become extra sensitive. Try licking the labia, gently sucking, or touching them while you manually stimulate the clitoris for extra sensation if she likes it.

On men, the perineum is that little piece of real estate located behind the testicles and before the anus that no one really knows what to do with. It has lots of different names, including

·       the taint – it taint butt and taint balls

·       The tween –it is tween the balls and the hole or

·       twixt the sack and the crack

·       The Chode is sometimes used, although chode can also be used for a very short thick penis, as well as a word for fornication itself.

·       gooch,

·       grundle

I think A great introductory couples’ toy is a c-ring. Start out with a non-vibrating version, which maximizes your clitoral and labial stimulation. Communicate how the added sensations can enhance the experience.  Our Rocket Rings are top notch.

Another great beginner’s option is our Deluxe Love Smitten and a bullet vibrator. This gives you lots of options starting out with a wonderful stress busting massage…into a vibrating massage…into where ever you want your adventure to take you.

Eventually you may want to move into more powerful versions with attached bullets designed to stimulate both of you at the same time. My recommendation is The Progressor, my most popular multi function couples toy.   It is soft, stretchy with a removable bullet that has multiple speed and pattern settings for lots of fun, relaxing and stimulating play.  The Progressor (pictured above) is my #1 choice since is can be used alone, with vibration, you can separate the bullet and use it alone, and of course it can also be used as a G Spot Training wheel! (more on that later)

C-rings also known as Cock Rings or O-Rings have evolved into a popular, couples’ toy. Actually, it is one of our best sellers at Passion Parties.

 

C-rings can be made from many different types of material from leather, cloth, silicone and even metal and glass, the c-rings of today are no longer a “kinky sex toy” or for men with erectile dysfunction, but a new way to experience lovemaking with the one you desire in a new and different way.

 

The most popular types of c-rings for couples are made from hygienic silicone or another comfortable, stretchy material. Vibrating c-rings and c-rings with clitoral stimulators were specifically designed to be sexually exciting for both partners. The most important role of any couples toy is to bring partners closer together.

The Way You Look Tonight

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OK, maybe not a manual but here is a good article!

 

The Female Orgasm: Help Her Achieve One Tonight

You have to see this one to believe it! And amazingly, the guy has had no takers. Gotta give him points for creativity.

Read the full story here

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Women were discouraged from having orgasms during the Middle Ages because it was thought that orgasms made women less capable of getting pregnant.

Boy are we glad they were wrong on that one!


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