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Some toys fare better than others in the hot tub or swimming pool due to the chemicals used to keep the water clean and bacteria free. The

best type of toys for the pool or hot tub are those made from hard plastic or glass. Soft toys may not last long in chlorine-treated water. So I recommend keeping these softer feeling toys for the bathtub or shower.

The sea’s natural saltiness may erode some toy materials if not properly maintained so it’s extra important to thoroughly clean and dry your toys after frolicking in the waves. Also, the ocean is constantly moving — hold on tight so your toy doesn’t get away from you! Imagine explaining that one to the coast guard – Why sorry sir, it just sort of got away from me!

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Tricks And Treats

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Challenge Time!

Take 5 minutes to write down all the thing your partner does that you love! Only the good things. Pick the best tricks, techniques and touches you can think of. Then compare notes…

2/13: Chocolate

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Sometimes the right line just might work. Your mission this week is to try these and let us know how you do!

May Work:

  • Here I am. Now what are your other two wishes?
  • If it’s true that we are what we eat, then I could be you by morning
  • Are you a Parking ticket because you got Fine written all over you!
  • I’m not really this tall, i’m just sitting on my wallet!
  • Hi, I’m writing a phone book, can I have your number?
  • Do you wash your clothes in Windex, because I can see myself in your pants.
  • I need someone really bad…Are you really bad?

Oh ya, definitely give these a try:

  • Give a rose to her and say: I wanted to show this rose how beautiful you are
  • Is there a rainbow here? Because you’re the treasure I’ve been searching for
  • Excuse me, do you mind if I stare at you for a minute? I want to remember your face for my dreams
  • What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl in this room?

At your own risk:

  • If you were a booger I’d pick you first
  • Are you free tonight, or will it cost me?
  • You be my Dairy Queen, I’ll be your Burger King, you treat me right and I’ll do it your way.
  • Is your last name Campbell?’Cuz you are mmm-mmm good!
  • Is your dad a baker? Cuz you’ve got some nice buns!
  • Oh! Sorry, I thought that was a Braille name tag.

Once you are ready to strip for your partner, prepare a plan and prepare yourself. Since you will most likely end your performance nude, be sure your skin feels and smells luscious by using the Passion Parties’ exclusive line of RomantaTherapy® products. Soak in a warm bath of Sensuous Bath Salts and exfoliate with Salt Glow Body Scrub.

Finish off with Plumeria Liquid Body Silk or Alluring Body Lotion. If shaving is necessary for your seductive performance, use Soft & Silky UniSE X Shaving Crème followed by Soft & Silky After Shave Protection Mist, which shields newly shaved skin.

Now that you feel great, don’t forget the ambiance. Have romantic music ready and your preferred tune cued to set the mood. Dim the lights and set the stage with a few aromatic candles, such as RomantaTherapy Seduction Soy Massage Candles.

The striptease is a sexy sensation sweeping the nation. Not only is it a great workout (the average woman burns up to 400 calories in one hour); it also helps to improve posture and confidence. But most importantly, it’s a wonderfully generous and intimate way to seduce your partner and reveal your desires.

If you’ve avoided performing a striptease for your sweetheart because you think you can’t dance or you’re too embarrassed, read more to discover a plan that will help turn you into a sizzling burlesque diva.


If you’re interested in some solid instructional assistance, Passion Parties’ Striptease for Real Women DVD is just what the doctor ordered. With this exciting, educational DVD, you’ll learn to develop your own style, rhythm and grace.

Give yourself plenty of time to learn and practice. Be patient. Don’t expect to deliver a magnificent performance after only a few days. Eventually, you’ll become acquainted with the way your body moves and comfortable with the dance routine, developing the confidence you need to release your sexy inner dancing diva.

Actually, you would be very surprised at how often people ask this. Some people are worried about their kids finding their items. Others don’t want their partner to know just yet. I have even heard of people who have pacts with a special friend…so if something horrible happens to them, the secret special sex toy clause is invoked, and the friend removes the toy so a person’s mother doesn’t see it!

So here are some thoughts on toy and accessory storage.

The easiest thing to do is to keep things in reach!

I know this sounds scary to some, but I can guarantee you will not receive one minute of pleasure if something is packed so far away that it would take an act of congress to move it. There is no greater mood killer than running across the house, under the sink, grab the blue box, open it and unwrap the lowly toy! Yikes! That defeats the whole purpose!!!

Consider something close to the bed, yet discreet:

  • A special drawer in the nightstand. This is usually the number 1 hiding spot for bedroom accessories. OF course if you have nosey kids, neighbors or parents that are just a little too familiar with your stuff this might not be your best option. Or consider putting a lock on that drawer.
  • A box – preferably one that locks – these are often stored in a drawer in that night stand. This is a great idea. You can try to fool the gang that invades your space by using a shoe box or electronics box. And while people feel more comfortable going thru your drawers, adding another layer or two of security with a box and a lock will probably keep most of the hood out.
  • Store the toys right in the bed or couch! No kidding, I have had several customers tell me they store their bullets right down the sides of the couch. The kids never look there because it is like cleaning! Placing some items between the mattress and box spring or behind the head board can also be effective…but I would definitely not recommend it for larger, bulkier or more expensive items. Now I have heard stories about people who store their guns between the mattresses too…so this might cause a little confusion from time to time. So you would definitely have to be sure you grabbed the right toy!
  • Hideaway pillow on the bed – what a great idea with this one. This is the old hide it in plain sight!
  • A locking steamer trunk or foot locker stored on the floor of the bedroom at the base of the bed is a method I have seen many toy and lotion connoisseurs use. These come with heavy duty locks and often tiers of storage trays…so you can customize a bit depending on your needs. When hot in use they look pretty at the end of the bed…ad a pillow for a homey feel
  • Hanging style stash bag – these are a little newer. Picture a locking garment bag, but inside is you stash o stuff! It hangs in the closet an looks like any other fancy outfit that is too good to leave out.
  • Over the door shoe hanger – for the really wild and crazy folks out there. I use them to display the products when I do home parties sometimes. They are clear vinyl and only for the people who are not shy and love the visuals! They can be attached to any door, or a portable rack if you like things more mobile.

So there you have some fun, wild and crazy ideas to store your stuff. Remember, when using toys, massagers or certain novelty items we recommend you clean them thoroughly with toy cleaner both before and after use. Air dry and store any soft materials in separate plastic bags. And remember to remove the batteries between uses, unless they are getting used every day.

You can find this cute toy box pictured here on my web site


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