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Numerical Sex Positions

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Challenge time!

See how many different sexual positions you can achieve with your partner in 5 minutes. This is to test your creativity.

Be gentle, use it lightly at first and allow your partner to get the feeling of the vibrations against sensitive areas like for a guy- behind his testicles or  gently along the shaft of his penis.  For the ladies, concentrate on the clitoris or the opening only of the vaginal canal. Remember, the majority of the nerve openings are in the first inch.

 Be flexible when introducing new toys. What you think might be a perfect toy may not work out for your partner. That’s perfectly ok; put that one aside, you can even save it for yourself, then try something different together.

Communicate and find out what your partner is curious about. Do a little research, and share your findings before you buy a new addition to your romantic life.  If you or your partner need some help in selecting something to help you put the old zsa zsa zsu back in your bedroom…or living room…or kitchen, well drop me a message.

Plans before expansion in the 18th century.

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Challenge time!

Want to have some real fun? For the next 6 weeks, your goal is to make love a different way every time! Change rooms, change positions, add something new, play a game…and keep a little log of all the new exciting things you do.

 

2/13: Chocolate

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Sometimes the right line just might work. Your mission this week is to try these and let us know how you do!

May Work:

  • Here I am. Now what are your other two wishes?
  • If it’s true that we are what we eat, then I could be you by morning
  • Are you a Parking ticket because you got Fine written all over you!
  • I’m not really this tall, i’m just sitting on my wallet!
  • Hi, I’m writing a phone book, can I have your number?
  • Do you wash your clothes in Windex, because I can see myself in your pants.
  • I need someone really bad…Are you really bad?

Oh ya, definitely give these a try:

  • Give a rose to her and say: I wanted to show this rose how beautiful you are
  • Is there a rainbow here? Because you’re the treasure I’ve been searching for
  • Excuse me, do you mind if I stare at you for a minute? I want to remember your face for my dreams
  • What does it feel like to be the most beautiful girl in this room?

At your own risk:

  • If you were a booger I’d pick you first
  • Are you free tonight, or will it cost me?
  • You be my Dairy Queen, I’ll be your Burger King, you treat me right and I’ll do it your way.
  • Is your last name Campbell?’Cuz you are mmm-mmm good!
  • Is your dad a baker? Cuz you’ve got some nice buns!
  • Oh! Sorry, I thought that was a Braille name tag.
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A wink, a smile, a second glance from her eyes, spurs just enough excitement to rouge your face with a light blush. This is the ancient art of flirting at its roots. Throughout time people have gone from exchanging written secret letters and romantic telegraphs to affectionate telephone calls and stimulating texts with their significant others, all the while entertaining the future promise of a sexual encounter.

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Of course any pain should probably be checked out by a doctor…so that is always my first recommendation.

But assuming everything is AOK  my first thought is to be sure there has been adequate foreplay so her body is ready for lovemaking. For some women, the cervix is more prominent in the vaginal canal…and when she becomes aroused, the pelvic area muscles tighten and actually lift the cervix out of the canal a bit. That is a good reason not to rush too quickly into intercourse itself.

Of course, Just about every can benefit from using a personal lubricant from time to time. So that is another option to consider.

And a final thought…some partners just don’t fit together well. If your package is bigger than she can handle…you can try some different positions where penetration is not as deep…or add a bumper guard. We have several customers use our Gigi this way. The trim it for the fit they want and that way he gets the feeling of deep penetration, but the bumper guard protects her from penetration too deeply. More on this coming… and you will too! 🙂

Coloured condoms

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First of all, anal is not for everyone. It looks like ¼ to 1/3 of us are probably enjoying and engaging in occasional to more often anal play or intercourse, regardless of what our sexual orientation is. So lots of us are experimenting. So in case you are wondering why I have been spending so much time on this topic, I want you to be as safe as possible, have as much info as you want and decide what makes sense for you. But no matter what, knowledge is power! But (fetish aside) actual anal intercourse (penis in anus) is probably the least practiced method of back door fun.

So how do we get on with enjoying the anal playground?

Here are some of the secrets, if you want to give it a try there are several things to know and prepare.

1.    you need lots of lubrication

2.   penetration is optional

3.   relaxation is key

4.   action should be slow

5.   pain means stop

6.   safety is sexy

7.   condoms are cool


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