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Do you interpretation of  your favorite movie scene

or chapter from a hot, steamy book.

Read Fifty Shades of Gray by E L Jamesanyone?

There are some super sexy ideas there!

Fifty Shades of Grey at SeaTac newsstand

If you ever find your self feeling a little down, in a rut, if the sizzle has fizzled or the grind is getting to you, all you have to do is pull out your personalized romantic memoirs and let them take you away, back to the best sexual and sensual experiences of your life. This would make a super exciting gift for your partner on so many levels! I bet just giving the gift of a record of your hottest sex encounters will lead to a whole other chapter in and of itself!

So lets get started.

Here are some mind joggers to help you create your blazing hot romantamemory book. Portions of this list have been taken from the Art of Seduction by Hugh DeBeer

PLACES – describe in detail, use pictures, souvenirs, scents or anything to help you bring back the memories of your best session…

In bed

In the car

In the kitchen

Outside

In the most unusual place

In the riskiest place

 

Special Times

First time together

Anniversary

Birthday

Best costumes

 

Techniques Positions and Physical Prowess

Best Dominant

Best submissive

Best kiss

Most athletic

Most consecutive orgasms

Most memorable sexual awakening

Wildest sex ever

Most interesting position

Most bizarre

Most loving

The highest energy

 

Toys and Accessories

Best sex toy

Favorite lotion

Favorite lube

Favorite Video

Favorite erotic story or book

Wish List

Positions

Locations

Toys and accessories

Fantasy

Other

 

Personal Best

Rate them all and then pick  your favorites.

As you can see this will be a work in progress. You should continue to add to your Best Sex Book, and refer to it often too!

Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women'...

Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women’s Sexual Fantasies (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle (Photo credit: rachelkramerbussel.com)

I bet that there are some of you with compromising pictures of yourself hidden in your drawers, or under your mattress. Or for the especially careful people out there, maybe even in a lock box.

Your bounty might not be limited to pictures either. Maybe you saved a flower from that first bouquet, or a special outfit, or even that first pair of panties from you special someone.

Today I am going to give you some ideas how to create a gallery of all your great sex memories. This will showcase all the very best intimate moments you have shared with your partner. What we want to focus on is a collection of memory joggers.

You know how it is, when someone tells a story. And it reminds you of a time in your past. I am going to give you some ideas to trigger your special super hot memories. Then you can record them in your own personal Best Sex Book.

Ass

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For some men, stimulation to the perineum will add to an overall pleasure picture. For others it will greatly increase sensations and/or improve orgasm.

I recently read about someone who referred to the perineum as her partners fast forward button. It increased his arousal level incredibly!!!

Arousing the perineum during oral sex is very easy. Using a small bullet style vibrator or our new Velvet Pleasure, which is shaped like a dental mirror, but vibrates and has a super soft and smooth feel with adjustable vibrations is a great way to hit the pleasure train.

During intercourse it can be a little more challenging, but not impossible. A female should be able to reach and massage or fondle the male perineum in a variety of different positions.

A couple other tips:

·       lube is a great accessory with any stimulation

·       be sure your nails are trimmed

·       since the anus is close by, be sure to be prepared for safe stimulation by using some type of barrier method… condom a finger, cut one in half to use like a dental dam for oral stimulation, or even saran wrap!

Numerical Sex Positions

Image by imjustcreative via Flickr

Challenge time!

See how many different sexual positions you can achieve with your partner in 5 minutes. This is to test your creativity.

Start by talking about toys and your curiosity to try them with your partner. The reality of sex toys may be a bit overwhelming, so don’t pressure your partner.

 

Men sometimes think that a sex toy will replace them – ladies, you can respond by asking him if masturbation makes him desire you any less. The obvious answer is no, it doesn’t. Just listen to him and consider his feelings. He might not be willing now, but you’ve opened the door and if he’s even slightly curious, he’ll be thinking about it. Remember, greater communication usually equals greater sex.

Let your partner watch you with your toy and encourage them to use it with you.

Feel free to be the narrator and help your partner out by telling him what to do, where to put it, and how it feels. That can be so sexy all by itself. Eventually, try to use the toy together.

Taking a break from your normal routine and experiencing your lover in a new way can not only bring back the fire of when you first got together, it’s also a great time to spice up your love life with sensual enhancements.

Persuading your partner to try a sex toy is similar to coaxing them into anything new – sexual or not. Change can be unsettling, but sexual changes can be even more so because intimacy is so loaded with emotion.

Some men and women both may feel that if their partner wants to try a toy, it means their abilities or equipment are not satisfying. Reassure them that they is irreplaceable. Toys don’t kiss, cuddle or take out the garbage. But the can be good for enhancing what is already good and introducing some variety and spice to your sex life to ad even more pleasure. And there is nothing wrong with that!


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