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Do you interpretation of  your favorite movie scene

or chapter from a hot, steamy book.

Read Fifty Shades of Gray by E L Jamesanyone?

There are some super sexy ideas there!

Fifty Shades of Grey at SeaTac newsstand

If you ever find your self feeling a little down, in a rut, if the sizzle has fizzled or the grind is getting to you, all you have to do is pull out your personalized romantic memoirs and let them take you away, back to the best sexual and sensual experiences of your life. This would make a super exciting gift for your partner on so many levels! I bet just giving the gift of a record of your hottest sex encounters will lead to a whole other chapter in and of itself!

So lets get started.

Here are some mind joggers to help you create your blazing hot romantamemory book. Portions of this list have been taken from the Art of Seduction by Hugh DeBeer

PLACES – describe in detail, use pictures, souvenirs, scents or anything to help you bring back the memories of your best session…

In bed

In the car

In the kitchen

Outside

In the most unusual place

In the riskiest place

 

Special Times

First time together

Anniversary

Birthday

Best costumes

 

Techniques Positions and Physical Prowess

Best Dominant

Best submissive

Best kiss

Most athletic

Most consecutive orgasms

Most memorable sexual awakening

Wildest sex ever

Most interesting position

Most bizarre

Most loving

The highest energy

 

Toys and Accessories

Best sex toy

Favorite lotion

Favorite lube

Favorite Video

Favorite erotic story or book

Wish List

Positions

Locations

Toys and accessories

Fantasy

Other

 

Personal Best

Rate them all and then pick  your favorites.

As you can see this will be a work in progress. You should continue to add to your Best Sex Book, and refer to it often too!

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Women on Top: How Real Life Has Changed Women’s Sexual Fantasies (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle

Best Sex Writing 2010 on Kindle (Photo credit: rachelkramerbussel.com)

I bet that there are some of you with compromising pictures of yourself hidden in your drawers, or under your mattress. Or for the especially careful people out there, maybe even in a lock box.

Your bounty might not be limited to pictures either. Maybe you saved a flower from that first bouquet, or a special outfit, or even that first pair of panties from you special someone.

Today I am going to give you some ideas how to create a gallery of all your great sex memories. This will showcase all the very best intimate moments you have shared with your partner. What we want to focus on is a collection of memory joggers.

You know how it is, when someone tells a story. And it reminds you of a time in your past. I am going to give you some ideas to trigger your special super hot memories. Then you can record them in your own personal Best Sex Book.

Start by talking about toys and your curiosity to try them with your partner. The reality of sex toys may be a bit overwhelming, so don’t pressure your partner.

 

Men sometimes think that a sex toy will replace them – ladies, you can respond by asking him if masturbation makes him desire you any less. The obvious answer is no, it doesn’t. Just listen to him and consider his feelings. He might not be willing now, but you’ve opened the door and if he’s even slightly curious, he’ll be thinking about it. Remember, greater communication usually equals greater sex.

Let your partner watch you with your toy and encourage them to use it with you.

Feel free to be the narrator and help your partner out by telling him what to do, where to put it, and how it feels. That can be so sexy all by itself. Eventually, try to use the toy together.

Taking a break from your normal routine and experiencing your lover in a new way can not only bring back the fire of when you first got together, it’s also a great time to spice up your love life with sensual enhancements.

Persuading your partner to try a sex toy is similar to coaxing them into anything new – sexual or not. Change can be unsettling, but sexual changes can be even more so because intimacy is so loaded with emotion.

Some men and women both may feel that if their partner wants to try a toy, it means their abilities or equipment are not satisfying. Reassure them that they is irreplaceable. Toys don’t kiss, cuddle or take out the garbage. But the can be good for enhancing what is already good and introducing some variety and spice to your sex life to ad even more pleasure. And there is nothing wrong with that!

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This is not usually a question your friendly neighborhood Passion Consultant answers…but I checked with the CDC and referring sites…and here is the bad news.

The only 100% effective method is abstinence.

The most popular methods of birth control listed at the CDC include:

Women-Birth Control pills, Injections, Implants, Iud, Diaphragm, cervical cap, Female Condom,

Male- Condom

Both- Withdrawal, rhythm method

Other than withdrawal, technically known as coitus interruptus…

the rest of the methods can prevent pregnancy when used regularly and properly. Keep in mind that the rhythm method aka natural family planning does take a high degree of motivation and dedication to be effective.

Using things like spermicide, douches after sex, standing up during intercourse, coughing afterward, jumping up and down or not having an orgasm are not methods that work for the purposes of birth control, and are really not much fun either. So see your doctor if family planning or birth control is something you would like more info about.

Tricks And Treats

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Challenge Time!

Take 5 minutes to write down all the thing your partner does that you love! Only the good things. Pick the best tricks, techniques and touches you can think of. Then compare notes…


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