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Do you interpretation of your favorite movie scene
or chapter from a hot, steamy book.
Read Fifty Shades of Gray by E L Jamesanyone?
There are some super sexy ideas there!
If you ever find your self feeling a little down, in a rut, if the sizzle has fizzled or the grind is getting to you, all you have to do is pull out your personalized romantic memoirs and let them take you away, back to the best sexual and sensual experiences of your life. This would make a super exciting gift for your partner on so many levels! I bet just giving the gift of a record of your hottest sex encounters will lead to a whole other chapter in and of itself!
So lets get started.
Here are some mind joggers to help you create your blazing hot romantamemory book. Portions of this list have been taken from the Art of Seduction by Hugh DeBeer
PLACES – describe in detail, use pictures, souvenirs, scents or anything to help you bring back the memories of your best session…
In bed
In the car
In the kitchen
Outside
In the most unusual place
In the riskiest place
Special Times
First time together
Anniversary
Birthday
Best costumes
Techniques Positions and Physical Prowess
Best Dominant
Best submissive
Best kiss
Most athletic
Most consecutive orgasms
Most memorable sexual awakening
Wildest sex ever
Most interesting position
Most bizarre
Most loving
The highest energy
Toys and Accessories
Best sex toy
Favorite lotion
Favorite lube
Favorite Video
Favorite erotic story or book
Wish List
Positions
Locations
Toys and accessories
Fantasy
Other
Personal Best
Rate them all and then pick your favorites.
As you can see this will be a work in progress. You should continue to add to your Best Sex Book, and refer to it often too!
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Hot Tub, Pool and Ocean Fun!
Posted on: January 20, 2012
Some toys fare better than others in the hot tub or swimming pool due to the chemicals used to keep the water clean and bacteria free. The
best type of toys for the pool or hot tub are those made from hard plastic or glass. Soft toys may not last long in chlorine-treated water. So I recommend keeping these softer feeling toys for the bathtub or shower.
The sea’s natural saltiness may erode some toy materials if not properly maintained so it’s extra important to thoroughly clean and dry your toys after frolicking in the waves. Also, the ocean is constantly moving — hold on tight so your toy doesn’t get away from you! Imagine explaining that one to the coast guard – Why sorry sir, it just sort of got away from me!
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Shower and Bath Fun
Posted on: November 10, 2011
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In general, showers are relaxing; but they can also be quite exciting –for instance – add your partner and a vibrating toy.
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Try this technique -vary the water temperature to find the combination that is the most exhilarating for you and your partner, like hot, then cold, and back to hot again, or any combination you can come up with. Enjoy exploring the way the water feels with vibrations on different parts of your bodies in relation to the temperature of the water. Our Velvet Curve is ideal for this kind of play! It is shaped kind of like a dental instrument and can hit all those nooks and crannies…
Bath Fun
The opportunities are endless for bath time fun, especially if you have a tub big enough for two.
Soak in a hot bath and let your toys help you relax. Water carries the sound of vibrations — something to keep in mind if you have roommates or house guests. If you have a whirlpool, what a great time to run it!
Waterproofing your Passion Play
Posted on: November 7, 2011
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Did you know that dolphins are the only mammals, other than humans, that seek sex for pleasure, not just procreation? What better introduction to our topic for today. Waterproof toys!
Waterproof toys are stimulating, relaxing and enjoyable during solo play or as an enhancement to partner sex… in or out of water. Enjoy in the bedroom, shower, bathtub, hot tub, or if you really
feel adventurous — some can even be used in the ocean.
Now is the perfect time to add some of Passion Parties’ waterproof toys to your collection. Let me tell you some of the choices in waterproof toys, where and how to use them and how to take care of them.
Got Lube?
As with any passion toy, the first essential to playtime is lubricant. Most lubricants are water-based and water
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soluble; meaning they are designed to wash away with water for easy clean up. That’s why 100% silicone lubricant won’t wash away when you need it the most and will keep its consistency much better than water-based lubes in the shower or hot tub. Just be sure not to use it on silicone toys.
Freein the Perineum for Fun
Posted on: October 4, 2011
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For some men, stimulation to the perineum will add to an overall pleasure picture. For others it will greatly increase sensations and/or improve orgasm.
I recently read about someone who referred to the perineum as her partners fast forward button. It increased his arousal level incredibly!!!
Arousing the perineum during oral sex is very easy. Using a small bullet style vibrator or our new Velvet Pleasure, which is shaped like a dental mirror, but vibrates and has a super soft and smooth feel with adjustable vibrations is a great way to hit the pleasure train.
During intercourse it can be a little more challenging, but not impossible. A female should be able to reach and massage or fondle the male perineum in a variety of different positions.
A couple other tips:
· lube is a great accessory with any stimulation
· be sure your nails are trimmed
· since the anus is close by, be sure to be prepared for safe stimulation by using some type of barrier method… condom a finger, cut one in half to use like a dental dam for oral stimulation, or even saran wrap!
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Remember, for guys the prostate gland, also known as the male g-spot, the p-spot or the a-spot, is located just a little bit north of the perineum…sort of between the perineum and the anal canal. I know, a bad visual, but I bet you got the picture.
So what do you want to do with this little landing spot? Since some men find testicle stimulation to be a little TOO much, stimulation of the perineum is a good alternative. As I always recommend, if you decide to experiment with any new bedroom fun, be sure the avenues of communication are open. And while you are in the neighborhood, consider trying some of these moves on the penis, scrotum or anus too!
- licking
- gently sucking (and no teeth unless specifically requested, and then only super gently)
- fondle especially during intercourse!
- massage
- vibration
Posted on: September 25, 2011
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Hot tip for the guys -dont over look the labia! As women get aroused, the labia also fills with blood, along with all her other special parts. Then the lips become extra sensitive. Try licking the labia, gently sucking, or touching them while you manually stimulate the clitoris for extra sensation if she likes it.
On men, the perineum is that little piece of real estate located behind the testicles and before the anus that no one really knows what to do with. It has lots of different names, including
· the taint – it taint butt and taint balls
· The tween –it is tween the balls and the hole or
· twixt the sack and the crack
· The Chode is sometimes used, although chode can also be used for a very short thick penis, as well as a word for fornication itself.
· gooch,
· grundle
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Start by talking about toys and your curiosity to try them with your partner. The reality of sex toys may be a bit overwhelming, so don’t pressure your partner.
Men sometimes think that a sex toy will replace them – ladies, you can respond by asking him if masturbation makes him desire you any less. The obvious answer is no, it doesn’t. Just listen to him and consider his feelings. He might not be willing now, but you’ve opened the door and if he’s even slightly curious, he’ll be thinking about it. Remember, greater communication usually equals greater sex.
Let your partner watch you with your toy and encourage them to use it with you.
Feel free to be the narrator and help your partner out by telling him what to do, where to put it, and how it feels. That can be so sexy all by itself. Eventually, try to use the toy together.
What actually is a French kiss?
Posted on: April 4, 2011
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Quite simply, French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongue. There really is no right or wrong way to kiss.
The point to keep in mind is that everybody kisses differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing.
Try kissing your partner a few times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing.
Here are a few tips to help you create the perfect French kiss.
Relax Yourself
You lips should be relaxed, you body should also be relaxed, otherwise it will be like kissing a dead fish!
Open Lips
Open your lips (not to wide) but just like you do when regularly breathing through your mouth.
Positioning
Do not have your faces directly opposite each other or your noses will clash. You want to move your head to one side just enough so your nose is out of the way of your partners.
Your mouths will then meet at the corner of your partner’s mouth and you won’t clash noses!
Tongue
Open your mouth and put your tongue out around an inch or two. Your tongue will then go into your partner’s mouth and theirs will of course go into yours.
Circle the tip of your tongue around the tip of theirs. If they do something different (and all people like to kiss differently) then just do the same as they do, if you are enjoying the sensation.
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