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Once you are ready to strip for your partner, prepare a plan and prepare yourself. Since you will most likely end your performance nude, be sure your skin feels and smells luscious by using the Passion Parties’ exclusive line of RomantaTherapy® products. Soak in a warm bath of Sensuous Bath Salts and exfoliate with Salt Glow Body Scrub.

Finish off with Plumeria Liquid Body Silk or Alluring Body Lotion. If shaving is necessary for your seductive performance, use Soft & Silky UniSE X Shaving Crème followed by Soft & Silky After Shave Protection Mist, which shields newly shaved skin.

Now that you feel great, don’t forget the ambiance. Have romantic music ready and your preferred tune cued to set the mood. Dim the lights and set the stage with a few aromatic candles, such as RomantaTherapy Seduction Soy Massage Candles.

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After your shave, ongoing attention to hygiene is also essential, so washing shaved areas 1 or 2 times a day as needed with mild soap and water will help reduce sweat and oil build-up in areas that are prone to that. Following cleansing keep the shaven area well moisturized by reapplying Soft and Silky After Shave Protection Mist, or Alluring Body Lotion.

A few more random shaving tips:

  • Try to shave at least every 2-4 days to keep your special areas in tip top shape.
  • If you have acne and need to shave that area, try both an electric and a blade or safety razor to see which is more comfortable. Shave as lightly as possible.
  • Never use the old-fashioned switchblade razor. It is quite unsuitable for pubic shaving and can be downright dangerous.
  • Wearing undies often rubs and irritates a specialty shave area, so use your best judgment on this one. Commamdo rocks! And will cut down on irritation and itchiness.
  • On that same thought train, adding a little non talc powder can be very comforting, especially on warm days. We have 2 options, Liquid Body Powder – goes on wet and dries to a silky smooth finish with a slight shimmer and  Passion Powder can be dusted on and who knows beyond that since it is edible.
  • For many ladies, the vulva becomes super sensitive during the peak of their menstrual cycle. You can limit irritations if you don’t shave this area during this time.
  • Shaving bare skin is the fastest way to cause razor burn – so don’t!Always use a lotion.
  • To stop or reduce itching after shaving try ice cubes or a bag of frozen peas over the area.
  • If you do suffer from itchiness or spots or blotchiness, let the hair grow back for at least a week before shaving again.
  • If you want to experiment with back door shaving, just know it is kind of tricky. A blade is not the best plan…so find yourself one of those real thin electric razors. Soak a long time, lots of Shave Lotion and it is really helpful to have a partner help too! Now that is true love!!!
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Both men and women should use a fresh, sharp razor for maximum results. Consider one of those fancy new ones that “float” with your skin and structure contours and have multiple cutting blades. Opting for a more expensive, good quality razor rather than a cheap throw away, often leads to a more comfortable shave that is less likely to cause nicks, soreness and razor burns. And a special tip for the Ladies, – use a female style razor, rather than an ordinary safety razor, it will have wires that wrap around the blade to minimizing the risk of nicks and cuts even more. You will really appreciate this in your most private and sensitive areas.

Guess what, now we are finally ready to shave! Pull the skin straight with your free hand and shave without applying too much pressure. Stroke an area no more than twice to reduce skin irritation. Rinse the razor frequently.  If you shave with the grain, you will experience the least amount of irritation, but some people feel shaving against the grain give you the smoothest shave. If razor burn and rash is a problem for you, start gently! I recommend one stroke with the grain, than finish up with a gentle stroke against the grain for ultimate results.

If you decide to do some special shaping, now is the time to proceed. There are actually little stencils you can purchase to shave around, to make cute little shapes or suggestions in special places! Have fun!

When your shave is done rinse the area with cool water to close the pores. Rinse the razor well too.

The perfect compliment to the soft and silky shave experience is Soft & Silky After Shave Protection Mist.  The silky-smooth mist forms a protective barrier between skin and clothing as it moisturizes and shields newly shaven skin. This will help to reduce irritation and give your skin a fabulous feel and scent. Pure botanical extracts in the Protection Mist provide a fresh fragrance, while their soothing properties soften skin and tighten pores – discouraging possible irritation to sensitive areas. The container has a handy 360 degree spray top which can be used in any direction. Even upside down so you can get it in all the important spots.

Who knew there was so much to consider when shaving…and just wait till next time!

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There are a lot of different shaving creams out there, and of course I recommend Soft and Silky Unisex Shaving Crème by Passion Parties. Ordinary soap alone is not the best choice for the shave portion of the program, because it doesn’t moisturize the hair the way our specially formulated Soft and Silky Unisex Shaving Crème does.

It is one of our best selling products and isaloe vera-based and enriched with jojoba oil to condition the skin. Interestingly it also reduces irritation and helps repair minor  skin abrasions caused by the razor.

Apply a small amount to damp legs, underarms, the bikini line or pubic area – anywhere you want a smooth, silky shave. It is a good idea and most effective to let the shave lotion soften the hair for a few minutes.

Men also will find Soft & Silky irreplaceable. After moistening the area to be shaved with water, and this can include beard, scalp or other specialty areas, massage in a circular motion into the area. This ensures that the sensitive hairs are supported by the product and readied for shaving. (a lot of men don’t exfoliate properly, so this is a way to help them.)

NOTE: Guys – your penises will appear longer if you keep the hair in the area trimmed or shaped! Manscaping is totally in right now.

For both sexes, Soft & Silky’s job is to provide the closest shave you have ever had, without the rash or red bumps that people typically experience, especially in sensitive-area shaves.

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Giving yourself a good shave is practically an art form! So here are a few ideas to help you get the best shave ever.

Before you step into the shower or tub, decide on the shape you want! If you’re starting from an area with longer hair, trim hair to about ¼ inch with clippers or scissors. Electric clippers seem to work best, but a scissors will due, just be extra cautious.

Wash the area thoroughly with warm water and soap. Gently use a loofah or scrubbie to exfoliate the dead skin. This will help you get the closer shave you desire. Don’t get too crazy, remember you will need that skin later! Consider a long hot bath, or a shower for a while, or at very least cover the area to be shaved with a warm wash cloth for 2-3 minutes, so it is nice and wet. Remember Pubic hair is coarser than head hair and needs more time to soften.

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