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Freein the Perineum for Fun
Posted on: October 4, 2011
- In: Anal | Foreplay | Men's Issues | Oral Sex | Orgasm | Sexual Well Being | Women's Issues
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For some men, stimulation to the perineum will add to an overall pleasure picture. For others it will greatly increase sensations and/or improve orgasm.
I recently read about someone who referred to the perineum as her partners fast forward button. It increased his arousal level incredibly!!!
Arousing the perineum during oral sex is very easy. Using a small bullet style vibrator or our new Velvet Pleasure, which is shaped like a dental mirror, but vibrates and has a super soft and smooth feel with adjustable vibrations is a great way to hit the pleasure train.
During intercourse it can be a little more challenging, but not impossible. A female should be able to reach and massage or fondle the male perineum in a variety of different positions.
A couple other tips:
· lube is a great accessory with any stimulation
· be sure your nails are trimmed
· since the anus is close by, be sure to be prepared for safe stimulation by using some type of barrier method… condom a finger, cut one in half to use like a dental dam for oral stimulation, or even saran wrap!
You have to see this one to believe it! And amazingly, the guy has had no takers. Gotta give him points for creativity.
Most sex lubricants are water-based. They typically contain water; glycerine, a syrupy-sweet emulsifier; propylene glycol, which helps the product retain moisture; and a preservative, typically methyl paraben, propyl paraben, or grapefruit seed extract. Pictured above is my best selling lube, Revelation!
Water-based lubricants are safe for use on the vulva, clitoris, and penis, and in the vagina and anus. They do not stain bed linen or clothing. It’s also safe to ingest small amounts of water-based lubricants during oral sex. It is ok to use them with latex condoms or diaphragms too.
During extended lovemaking, water-based lubricants may dry out. You can apply more, or revive them with a little water or saliva. After sex, rinse water-based lubricants off with a warm, moist wash cloth.
Although water-based lubricants are safe, some of the ingredients might cause irritation or allergic reactions in sensitive individuals. Water-based lubricants work fine on the genitals, but they are not designed to be used as massage lotions on large expanses of skin. Many water-based lubricants claim to be “taste-free,” but that’s not quite true. Glycerine has a slightly sweet taste. Grapefruit seed extract often tastes slightly bitter. Some water-based lubricants come in different flavors to encourage playful use during oral sex.
Water-based lubricants can provide a medium for bacterial and yeast growth when they get too old, so changing them annually is recommended.
Wetter Sex is Better Sex
Posted on: November 1, 2010
- In: Anal | Sex Ed | Sex Positions | Tips and Tricks | Women's Issues
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Why Lube?
• Close your mouth and dry your lips.
• Run a finger lightly over them, paying close attention to how it feels.
• Now, lick your lips.
• With your lips moist, run the same finger over them in the same way, again focusing on how it feels.
Which caress felt more sensual? If, like the vast majority of people, you said: “The one with lips moist,” you’ll see how sexual lubricants can help you enjoy more pleasure in lovemaking. The most sensual sex is wet sex, and wet sex is what lubricants are all about.
Have you ever suffered discomfort because intercourse took place without sufficient natural lubrication? Lubricants eliminate this problem.
Have you ever run out of natural lubrication during extended intercourse and suffered sore genitals as a result? Lubricants to the rescue!
Have you ever wished that condoms transmitted more sensation? With a lubricant, they can. Have you ever suffered discomfort during anal play? Lubricants can make it so much more comfortable and exciting…
Revelation
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